LONELINESS? Thought about suicide?

Each of us at least once in our life experienced a difficult period, realizing that now it is on the verge and is about to fall into the abyss. The reason for this is often the revaluation of values ​​and the understanding that we have missed opportunities. There is no way out, but something difficult to change and too late. When you do not see the path and the light at the end of the tunnel, everything loses its meaning. If you are a man who has never met a woman who is able to appreciate him, think how wasteful it would be to cut everything off like that, in one fell swoop.

Suppose you do not have and there will be neither a separate apartment, nor a car, nor even education and work. You are neither young nor slim. But imagine how many single women you could make happier by simply offering them comfort and simple care? It’s not these half-idol griefs who invent texts like “What a man must have” and “5 signs of rogue”, but real, lively and sincere? Who walk the streets in your city,they sit for a long time with a cup of tea or coffee in a cafe, eagerly catching the eyes of men passing by and wondering which of them the wife is waiting for at home, and for whom it is possible to become the one who will cook mashed potatoes and cutlets, wrap up a scarf in the cold ...
In the practice of the great Milton Erickson there was such a case. A timid man who never had a relationship addressed him and he decided to commit suicide. Then the psychotherapist gave him the task to stand in the center of the city, at a cafe, and to invite for a cup of coffee different women, everyone. After all, if he is still tomorrow or the day after tomorrow hangs himself or throws himself out of the window - is it not scary to disgrace himself, getting refusals? Then, when everything is denied to him because of his uselessness and unattractiveness and it will be clear that he has no chance, you can die. By evening, the guy had such a number of appointments and numbers of women of different ages and looks, that the only problem was ... how to catch the scheduled meetings with at least some of them.
What you consider to be a terrible disadvantage for someone may be a dignity or the only possible condition. One will like a pot-bellied bearded system administrator,which will reinstall a half-night program on her computer, and the other is a shy literature teacher who falls asleep with a volume of Tomashevsky and is obsessed with medieval French farces. One homebody herself and not against you all the evening lying on the couch and eating pies, and the other wants to travel with tents and surf. Some find it charming when a man stutters or burrs, and for a person himself such a small feature is almost a cause for depression and self-deprecation.
Remember that no matter how poor, ugly and worthless you would not consider yourself, there are always at least a few women who are just waiting for you to make them happy with their attention. If they themselves are not beautiful and not successful ... do it out of pity and kindness. Do not deprive of their last hope at least for a short relationship with you.

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